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FOUR FS / Four F's / 4-Fs:


(1) Find them, Feel them, Fuck them, and Forget them. When 'feel them' is omitted, it is known as 3-Fs or FFF. A much rarer and more callous version is: find 'em, feel 'em, fuck 'em, and throw 'em away. A humorous version is: find 'em, feel 'em, fuck 'em, and fuck 'em.
QUOTE-1: This credo of lechery is thought to be of recent coinage, but it's origin dates back to at least the 1930s. Mae West, as Tira, has a similar line in I'm No Angel (1933): 'Never let a man worry your mind. Find 'em, fool 'em, and forget 'em.'
QUOTE-2: Hugh Rawson, Wicked Words (1989): 'The famous four-F's, the moto by which every red-blooded teenage male wishes to live, but seldom does: find 'em, feel 'em, fuck 'em, forget 'em.'
QUOTE-3: From TimeOut/Forums, September 9, 1998: '...personally I don't like being a "Find 'em, Flatter 'em, Feel 'em, Flog 'em, Fuck 'em, Forget 'em" toy.'
(2) Find, Fool, Frig, and Forget ('em). Another wencher's credo is: pick 'em up, fuck 'em silly.

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