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bdsm:

Or: BDSM / BDS-&-M / B & D/S & M , a generic term for alternate, non-standard sexuality comprising any or all of the activities covered by its acronyms: B-&-D = bondage-and-discipline , D & S = domination-and-submission , S & M = sadism and masochism . BDSM play is by mutual consent, wich distinguishes it from abuse and assault, just as consent distinguishes sex from rape; games, scenes or scenarios, are negotiated transfers of power between consenting partners and encompass physical and/or psychological interactions. BDSMers belong to all sexual orientations: heterosexual , homosexual , bisexual , transsexual , monogamous or polyamorous; some individuals even view BDSM as their sexual-orientation ; whatever role they assume during a scene or scenario, top or bottom , dominant or submissive, dominator or slave , BDSMers are not necessarily submissive or dominant in other aspects of their lives. BDSM includes a wide range of alternate (often described as kinky) sexual activities: animal-training (human puppy dog , ponygirl, ponyboy, pony rides, doggy training, worm games, faux bestiality), asphyxiation, being blindfolded, being gagged, being serviced, belting , beating (hard or soft), biting , bodmod (body modification), body-worship , bondage (light or heavy), boot (or foot) worship , breast-bondage , breast whipping , branding , brown-showers, caning , catheterization, chauffering, choking, clothespins, cock worship , collars, corporal-punishment , corset wearing, cuffs , cutting, double-penetration , electrical toys (including ultraviolet-wands and electroshock toys), enemas, exhibitionism, face slapping, fantasy rape, fantasy gang rape, fire and ice, fisting , following orders, forced dressing, forced nudity, forced servitude, full body strapping , furniture of torture (slings, St. Andrew's crosses, etc.), genitorture, golden-showers, hairbrush spanking, hair pulling, harnessing, head hoods , heavy-leather use, high heel worship , homage with tongue , hot-waxing, housework, humiliation (in private or in public), ice cubes, infantilism , interrogations, kidnapping, kneeling, leather restraints, leathersex, lecturing, licking, massage, medical scenes, mouth bits , mummification, nipple clamps, nipple weights, oral-anal play, over-the-knee spanking, orgasm denial , orgasm control, phone-sex , physical examinations, piercing, psychological games (Uniform Role Playing and Daddy/Boy/Girl games, etc.), pussy whipping , pussy worship , religious scenes, role-playing, rope bondage , saran-wrapping, scratching, serving as a maid, sensory deprivation, serving as furniture, sexual-deprivation , shaving, spanking, slapping, trampling, speculums (anal or vaginal), spreader-bars, stocks, straightjackets, strap-on-dildos, suspension, swapping, swinging , tape gags, tattooing, teasing , tickling , triple-penetration , uniforms, verbal humiliation , video-taped scenes, voyeurism , watersports, whipping (with a whip , a bullwhipping, a riding-crop , a cat-o-nine-tails), wrestling. Bestiality is excluded.

Quotes:

(1) Alberta Marlow (Mary Astor) to Rick Leland (Humphrey Bogart) in Across the Pacific (1942): ' It's true! Seeing me in pain gives you pleasure.' But then she's complaining about a mild sunburn.

(2) Morticia (Anjelica Huston) to Gomez (Raul Julia) in The Addams Family (1991): ' Don't torture yourself, Gomez. That's my job .'

(3) Bert (Robert Lindsay) speaking of Tess Trample (Carmen Du Sautoy) and her husband Sid (Robbie Coltrane) in Bert Rigby, You're a Fool (1989): ' A nympho and a schizo; their marriage was a perfect blend of sex and violence .'


See Also: 24/7/365, abrasion, ball locks, BDS & M, bdsm, BDSMer, BDSMLMNOP, beefsteak and onions, beefsteak, hold the onions, BFP, blindfolding, blue handkerchief, bodmod, bootlicking, Boston Tea Party, boundaries, breast torture, brown shower, brown sugar, bundler, burgers and dogs, C & B bondage, C & B play, C & B Torture, C and B torture, C.P., C/B/T/T, CA, cane, canine interest(s), caning, canned goods, cat, cat-fighting, catcher, CB, CD, CIS, cockring, corsetting, countess, CT, cultures, D/s, dark fetish(ism), depersonalization, diapering, docile, dog training, domination, dominatrix bitch, femdom, goddess, harm, HD, horizontal bra, humiliation, hurt not harm, into domination, into submission, knee spreader, lady, left hip pocket, leg stretcher, M/s, maledom, marquesa, master, munch, ObBDSM, power exchange, princess, right hip pocket, safeword, spreader bar, sub, switch, switch-hitter, T & B, tit discipline, tit torture, titty discipline, titty torture, topping from the bottom, torch job, torture, total power exchange, train, training room, tutor, vacation, vertical bra, web, weekend scenario, whip, WIITWD, wind-up merchant, YKINOK

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