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bondage and discipline:
Or: bd / BD / b/d / B/d / B and D / b and d / b & d / B-&-D / B .D. More rarely: bondage-and-dominance / bondage-and-domination , a type of sexual relationship consisting of lightly sadomasochistic scenarios in which a submissive partner is physically restrained and then disciplined, chastised, or punished physically or psychologically by a dominant partner . Discipline is almost always symbolic and much lighter than in sadomasochism; characteristically it contains little physical pain or discomfort but relies heavily on verbal abuse , threats, and humiliation , and on light punishment and torture (spanking, whipping) to enforce obedience, servitude or enslavement. Master-slave role playing scenarios are negotiated beforehand by the partnerS; sexual etiquette requires that the dominant not use the situation to fulfill exclusively his/her own fantasies, particularly ones that the bottom doesn't find arousing. See also sadism ; masochism ; sadomasochism. Quotes:
(1) Molly (Rene Russo) to Tin Cup/Roy McAvoy (Kevin Costner) in Tin Cup (1997): 'You might try being saddled sometime: the smell of leather , the sting of the whip ...'
(2) Susan (Edie McClurg), a swinger , invites Mary Bland (Mary Woronov) and her husband Paul (Paul Bartel), for a little kinky sex at a party in Eating Raoul (1982):
-- Susan: ' We were wondering if you'd like to get together and have a little fun? '
-- Mary: ' What did you have in mind? '
-- Susan: ' Oh, gee , we're up for about anything. You see we're both bies so we can go either way , but actually we do like straight-sex . Moose is into voyeurism and I'm into exhibitionism. We like B-&-D , but we don't like S & M . We met at A & P , but we don't like labels .'
-- Mary: ' Very nice of you to ask us but we're actually into Saint-Bernards .'
See Also: ankle restraint, bondage table, bondage bra, bondage and domination, bondage and dominance, bondage queen, bondagepics, dominate, cock mouth gag, cock strap, cock and ball bondage, body slave, bondage harness, bondage and torture, straight sex, cock and ball harness, cock harness, collar, collar and lead, non-kinky sex, scolds bridle, bondage device, bambi sex, BDSMer, body worship, brank, burgers and dogs, chain, chloroform, animal training, bondager, bondage, sexual bondage,
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